Senin, 28 September 2015

Mid Term Test Exercise

Read the following text and answer the questions!
The Apple Tree And A Boy
Once upon a time, there was a huge apple tree which gave tasty apples to the people around it. There was also a little boy who became a close friend to the apple tree. The boy used to play with apple tree, climb its branches, sleep under its shadow, pluck its apples, etc. Every day he visited the apple tree, and ate some apples. The apple tree was kind to the boy and enjoying spending time together.
One day, the boy joined in school and didn't have a time to spend with apple tree. After several days, the boy came to the tree. The apple tree was so happy to see the boy. It asked the boy to play.
Unfortunately, the boy said he was not a child anymore. He didn't want to play with  the tree. But he asked another request to  the apple tree.
The tree asked what the boy wanted. The boy said he needed toys, but his parents didn't have money to buy it for him.
The tree said, "Dear my boy, i don't have any money to buy it for you, but you can pick my apples, then sell them, get money and buy  the toys you want."
The boy went happily to his home after plucking apples. The tree was waiting to see the boy return. But he never came back for many years.
The apple tree was sad and it didn't produce any apples anymore.
1.       What does the story tell about?
2.       How are the characteristics of the boy in the story above?
3.       What did the boy do to the apples?
4.       The tree could not give the boy any money. What was the solution the apple tree gave to the boy?
5.       Why did the boy reject the tree’s request to play?
6.       What is the ending of the story?

Answer the questions below by completing the blanks using proper phrases!

7.       Ann: Joe, next week I’m going to hold a birthday party, ______________?
Joe: Sure.
8.       Tom: Look, the canteen is burnt. _______!
9.       I think I need some rest. Let’s ______________!
10.   I know you have big power enough to lift that suitcase. _________________!
11.   It will be your last chance. __________________!
12.   I know it must be difficult for you, but ____________________!
13.   Eric: Come on, you can do it!
Jack: ____________
14.   A: I have read your essay, and I think_______
B: mm... I will consider it.
15.   A: What did you do to that radio?
B: I’m trying to fix it.
A: __________________. You are breaking it.




Senin, 07 September 2015

INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION: Expressing persuading , encouraging , criticizing

INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION

Expression Persuading:
  Come on. 
  Give it a try. 
  Try them on. 
  Believe me, you'll have fun times. 
  Don't be a spoilsport. 
  It will be fun, I'm sure. 
  You'll enjoy it. Go. 
  You won't regret it. 
  This is once in your lifetime, don't waste it. 
  It's your only chance, try it. 
  You wouldn't find them twice, come on! 
  You'll never feel sorry about it.
  Don’t be so silly!
  I really think it would be a pity if we didn’t ....
  Are you quite sure you won’t consider...?
  I really think you’d do well to ....
  Oh, come on!
  Can’t I persuade you to ....
  Let’s join .... You won’t regret it.
  I’m begging you. Will you...?
  Just this once!
  How I can persuade you to…?
  You're not going to let me down, are you?
  Not even for me/for my sake?
  Please, just this once.
Respond:
  I'll think about it.
  Do you think I will succeed? 
  It is fun.
  Will I enjoy it?



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Expression Encouraging :
  I'm sure you will pass ....
  That wouldn't be too hard. 
  Hey, you'll succeed on that. 
  Don't worry, I'm certain that you'll ... 
  You are a big boy/girl. 
  You are used to do that, remember? 
  I know you can do it. 
  This is for your best.
  There won't be any difficulties on ...
  You’re doing very well. 
  Give it a shot.
  Come on. This is not the end of the world.
  We feel you should go ahead.
  It wouldn’t hurt.
  Don’t give up!
  Keep it up!

Respond :
  That's a good idea.
  Go on.
  I'll think about it.
  I'll try.
  Do you think so?
  I'll consider it.
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Expression Criticizing:
  Do you think that would do any good?
  You look like a sack of cement on ….
  This is a really smart portion
  Your hand writing needs more shapes.
  Your writing is too argumentative.
  Your moves need a lot of practice
  What’s ridiculous ….!
  I can’t stand the rudeness.
  You’d be well advisen to / not to ….
  I’d say ….
  Without wishing to ….
  How shall I put it?


Respond:
  Thank you.
  I keep your word.
  Thanks.
  I trust you. 
  Let me put it this way
  It’s ok.
  I also think the same.

EXAMPLE 1
X : Hi.... Good afternoon
Y : Hi.... Good afternoon
X : Nice to meet you!
Y : Nice to meet you too!
X : You're look sad, what's happen?
Y : I'm sad, because I have lose my money !
X : How much money you lost?
Y : Rp 1000,-
X : you're so stingy! (criticizing)
Y : am I stingy? I'm not stingy !
X : You lose money Rp 1000're feeling sad!, really stingy !... Do not think about it,   it is a little amount of money! .... do not be sad! (persuading & giving support)
Y : Okay ! wish me luck!
X : Okay

EXAMPLE 2
Girl : Why are you look so confuse ?
Boy : Well , i have a national exam next week , but i haven’t any prepare for it
Girl : Why dont you just study ?
Boy : It useless, i know that even i’ve study hard, the result is the same.
Girl : What do you mean of the same ?
Boy : You know everytime i have exam no matter how hard i’ve study but at the end , i always
         get the bad mark.
Girl : Come on , don’t be like that please, you have to keep on positif thinking ...     
          I’m sure that you can do it if you study seriously
Boy : But i’m not sure
Girl : Listen to me ,and look at my eyes ,i’m telling you that you can through this ,
          just believe in yourself keep it up .


source: http://andinasmahrukman.blogspot.com/2014/11/expression-of-persuading-regretting.html