INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION: Expressing persuading , encouraging , criticizing

INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION

Expression Persuading:

•  Come on. 

•  Give it a try. 

•  Try them on. 

•  Believe me, you'll have fun times. 

•  Don't be a spoilsport. 

•  It will be fun, I'm sure. 

•  You'll enjoy it. Go. 

•  You won't regret it. 

•  This is once in your lifetime, don't waste it. 

•  It's your only chance, try it. 

•  You wouldn't find them twice, come on! 

•  You'll never feel sorry about it.

•  Don’t be so silly!

•  I really think it would be a pity if we didn’t ....

•  Are you quite sure you won’t consider...?

•  I really think you’d do well to ....

•  Oh, come on!

•  Can’t I persuade you to ....

•  Let’s join .... You won’t regret it.

•  I’m begging you. Will you...?

•  Just this once!

•  How I can persuade you to…?

•  You're not going to let me down, are you?

•  Not even for me/for my sake?

•  Please, just this once.

Respond:

•  I'll think about it.

•  Do you think I will succeed? 

•  It is fun.

•  Will I enjoy it?

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Expression Encouraging :

•  I'm sure you will pass ....

•  That wouldn't be too hard. 

•  Hey, you'll succeed on that. 

•  Don't worry, I'm certain that you'll ... 

•  You are a big boy/girl. 

•  You are used to do that, remember? 

•  I know you can do it. 

•  This is for your best.

•  There won't be any difficulties on ...

•  You’re doing very well. 

•  Give it a shot.

•  Come on. This is not the end of the world.

•  We feel you should go ahead.

•  It wouldn’t hurt.

•  Don’t give up!

•  Keep it up!

Respond :

•  That's a good idea.

•  Go on.

•  I'll think about it.

•  I'll try.

•  Do you think so?

•  I'll consider it.

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Expression Criticizing:

•  Do you think that would do any good?

•  You look like a sack of cement on ….

•  This is a really smart portion

•  Your hand writing needs more shapes.

•  Your writing is too argumentative.

•  Your moves need a lot of practice

•  What’s ridiculous ….!

•  I can’t stand the rudeness.

•  With respect/With all due respect ….

•  You’d be well advisen to / not to ….

•  I’d say ….

•  Without wishing to ….

•  How shall I put it?

Respond:

•  Thank you.

•  I keep your word.

•  Thanks.

•  I trust you. 

•  Let me put it this way

•  It’s ok.

•  I also think the same.

EXAMPLE 1

X : Hi.... Good afternoon
Y : Hi.... Good afternoon
X : Nice to meet you!
Y : Nice to meet you too!
X : You're look sad, what's happen?
Y : I'm sad, because I have lose my money !
X : How much money you lost?
Y : Rp 1000,-
X : you're so stingy! (criticizing)
Y : am I stingy? I'm not stingy !
X : You lose money Rp 1000're feeling sad!, really stingy !... Do not think about it,   it is a little amount of money! .... do not be sad! (persuading & giving support)
Y : Okay ! wish me luck!
X : Okay

EXAMPLE 2

Girl : Why are you look so confuse ?

Boy : Well , i have a national exam next week , but i haven’t any prepare for it

Girl : Why dont you just study ?

Boy : It useless, i know that even i’ve study hard, the result is the same.

Girl : What do you mean of the same ?

Boy : You know everytime i have exam no matter how hard i’ve study but at the end , i always

         get the bad mark.

Girl : Come on , don’t be like that please, you have to keep on positif thinking ...     

          I’m sure that you can do it if you study seriously

Boy : But i’m not sure

Girl : Listen to me ,and look at my eyes ,i’m telling you that you can through this ,

          just believe in yourself keep it up .

source: http://andinasmahrukman.blogspot.com/2014/11/expression-of-persuading-regretting.html